First seek to understand, then to be understood

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First seek to understand, then to be understood

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The book appeals to the efficient use of time so that you can always find time for the important things. The goal is to cut out unnecessary things from your life and focus on the goal from point 2. If the goal of your life is to have a happy family, you will find it difficult to deal with work emails in the evening instead of reading with your children.

2. Public victories
When you have first aligned your expectations from life and found your values, you can boldly face the world.

Habit #4: Think win-win
It seems to me that this is nothing more than the art of compromise. Because what else is there when both sides of the dialogue win?! People who don't want to assert their own ego or aren't too competitive can handle it with ease.

#5 Habit:
The whole habit #5 is just about being willing to understand the other overseas chinese in uk data person's motivation . The problem is that this is the hardest thing in relationships. Who among you has ever said to a child in the sandbox: "Don't cry because of such stupidity, I just broke your castle, maybe it's not that big of a deal." What if in the other person's world, it wasn't just the castle that broke?

From my perspective, this habit is the most challenging. It means not only really listening, but also not judging and learning to empathically express your desires/concerns or fears. By the way, all “alternative” educational trends promote exactly this idea: listen, listen, listen.

#6 habit: create synergy
Or, value the different personalities and qualities of others. Because a diverse team is the most effective at work (as studies show).

But this habit also requires tolerance and openness, as others can help you achieve your own goals.

To live, to work, to experience
#7 Habit: Sharpen the Saw
The seventh habit invites you to remind yourself of all your habits from time to time. Keep your inner harmony in mind and strive to live in accordance with the principles.
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